You cannot worry about someone and love them at the same time. Most people mistake the emotion of worry for the emotion of love. They think that worrying about somebody means that you love them.
G-11/2/97 -- Chicago, IL
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Whatever you're thinking about is literally like planning a future event. When you're worrying, you are planning. When you are appreciating, you are planning...What are you planning?
Abraham-Hicks G-4/19/97 --Silver Spring, MD

What goes wrong with humans, is they say, 'I want world peace' --and we say
world peace is none of your business! Personal peace is. ... There is no
possible way of getting everyone to agree. ...So then you say, 'yes, but
what if I ignore him and so I disengage him from my vibration ... what
about the others that he's trampling? What about those that don't know as
much as I do?', and we say now you're back involved. In other words, you
get to choose. ... So, finally, when you say, 'I don't have to figure it
out for any of them, and I'm going to align with the energy of well-being',
and follow that path, then it's easier for you to watch everyone else play
out their game.

Abraham-Hicks --Boise, ID 7/3/02

We want you to focus with us, for just a little bit, and get a sense of this very important contrast. We don't mean conflict. We don't mean agony and defeat and ecstasy and exultation, although agony and defeat and ecstasy and exultation certainly is a contrasting experience. We mean difference.
Excerpted from Abraham-Hicks Workshops:
G-8/22/98 San Francisco, CA
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Abe
. Esther does not do anything that would hurt anyone's feelings, intentionally. But sometimes when somebody pushes against her, her natural knee-jerk response is to push back. That's what most wars are about. Somebody pushed at you, or you think they will, and you're afraid. It is your feeling of someone being powerful, and making you do something that you do not want to do, that is the angst that is at the heart of all of that. As more people come to understand that all really is well, and that no one has any control in my experience because they cannot cause me to vibrate, and that I can set my own Tone and vibrate that way -- then we can co-exist as physical humans with everybody living life the way they are wanting. And not one other person on the planet has to know that, for you to live happily ever after! But you do have to reach the place where it doesn't give you pain to see someone living in a way that they are choosing. If you could get inside those revolutions, where you could understand them, you might find the life-giving factor that the war is giving to some of them. Why You Choose Negative Emotion Over No Emotion

You have been trained to see something that is wrong and push against it. There's a war against drugs and a war against poverty and a war against crime and a war against all kinds of things. And in each of those scenarios, as you are looking at this thing that you do not want and pushing against it, you are not pushing it away, but instead you are holding it in your vibration.
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That's why we say you can't destroy your world. You can't blow up your planet. You can't be an evil monger that has such ill intent that you can get out there and get hold of this powerful Energy and conquer or destroy the planet. You cannot do that. You only have the power to affect your own experience. But as you are living and another looks at you, now he is influenced. In other words, you are your own worst enemy. It is your fear of the monster that gives the monster his power. It is your fear of the disease that gives the disease its power. It has no power in your experience if it were not for your looking at it and in your lackful looking, disallowing the pure Energy that would give you a different experience.

ABE........in truth we are all brothers, in other words we are all part of
this powerful energy, this pure positive energy, your greatest
enemies are your closest allies, these people that you struggle with
the most very often are the counterpart of your vibrational soul
that's why it hurts you so much when you drop your bombs on them ,in
other words it's a painful experience to push against that which
really in truth is you……."
Abraham Hicks G 6.11.99
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Abe When you observe something that is pleasing, by your standards, you have a good feeling response. Life feels better when you are not looking at something that makes you feel bad. And so, there's a very human tendency to want to control all conditions, which usually means you have to limit the breadth of your experience, because any time you decide you're going to control something, it must be rather small. And we have to say to you that in all of the humans we've watched, (and we've watched all of them) we have never seen anyone successful in controlling conditions. That is why it is rather amazing to us that so many of you keep trying. In every moment, with every thought, you are offering a vibration, sort of like a radio signal, and the entire Universe is responding to that signal. And so, by Law of Attraction (that which is like unto itself is drawn), those things that are a vibrational match to the signal you are offering are what you receive back. It's not so different from your radio tuner. You are dialing in to that specific station you're wanting to hear. Sometimes, in your attempt to control your circumstances, it would be a little bit like sitting at home with the first radio you've ever actually seen, and no one has shown you the tuning dial on it. And so, you haven't realized you had choices. So, you turn it on, and something very offensive to you, by your standards, comes to you through your radio. Let's say that you understand basically how the radio works. You understand that there is a broadcasting tower out there somewhere sending the signal. So you decide that since you want to hear only good things on your radio, you will go out and destroy all of those towers broadcasting the things that don't please you. So you cut the legs out from under one of them, and you set a bomb in another one, and you burn another one down. It takes you quite awhile, (to shut them all down) but eventually you get all of those broadcasting towers knocked down, except the one that was broadcasting what you want to hear. But all along, all you had to do was change your tuning dial a little bit. We are wanting you to realize that your work, as a creator, is not to control the circumstances around you so that you can have a good feeling response. Your work is to set your Tone so that you have only vibrational access to those things that will give you a good feeling response. It is so much easier to learn how to offer your vibration. And it also puts you in a place of great freedom. When you finally get it that it's not your job or anybody else's to control anything anybody else is doing, and when you discover the flexibility and the ease in deliberately offering your vibrational offering It can give you an enormous amount of freedom Abraham- Hicks : G-7/3/99

Most of you still think, that somebody or something else is eking out the goodness: The economy is allowing it, or the employer is allowing it, or Mommie and Daddy are allowing it, or the government is allowing it or God is allowing it. In other words, it feels to you like some other benevolent or not-so-benevolent being holds the keys to all of this, and that you are all sort of going through the paces trying to do whatever is appropriate in order to justify or earn your Well-being. And that basis is exactly backwards, you see. It is not even close. Because the Well-being abounds, it gushes, it oozes.
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There is not a source of not Well-being. There is not a source of sickness. There is just the disallowance of wellness. In every particle of the Universe there is that which is wanted and lack of it.    Abraham Hicks G-10/17/96, Syracuse, NY
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Source Energy is the only Energy that flows. There's not a Source of dark, there is a Source of light, which you may be allowing or you may not. Well-being flows
Abraham-Hicks Workshops G--8/18/01-- San Francisco,, CA
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Abraham: There is no source of that which you consider to be bad. It is just that sometimes you get into a vibrational place where you disallow the good you deserve, that would be there otherwise.
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It is natural for you to be absolutely well. It is natural for you to be abundant. It is natural for you to feel good. It is natural for you to feel clarity. It is not natural to feel confusion or to not have enough or to feel lack or to feel blame. These are not natural to the you that is really you. But they seem to be sort of natural to the human patterns that you've picked up along your physical trail.
 Abraham-Hicks G-7/4/99 -- Seattle, WA